Monday was Beth's birthday. It was also our first attempt at hosting a comida. We invited 47 people and 45 showed up. It was a wonderful evening. Friends from Union Zapata, Mitla, Matatlan, San Dionisio, and Tlacolula attended.
Everyone was warned that the food was going to be a little different. We served hot dogs, potato salad, coleslaw, and Boston Baked Beans. Not a typical menu aqui in Oaxaca. Beth was asked for her recipes which is a good sign that the food was enjoyed.
We have attended many fiestas here in Oaxaca. How different it is to attend or give a small comida where all of the faces, regardless of where you look, are faces of close friends.
As is the custom here Beth was prompted to take a bite, (mordida), of the cake before it was cut. It's kinda of a fun version of the bride and groom cutting the cake at a wedding. Often someone manages to sneak around behind the birthday person and push their face into the cake resulting in icing from chin to forehead. I suppose that not knowing what her reaction would be Beth was not accosted.
Later in the night Beth and I were coaxed into having a birthday dance. We felt like king and queen as we danced to "Don't Let Our Love Start Slipping Away", by Vince Gill.
It's such a great feeling to see friends enjoying themselves and even greater watching a loved one bask in the light of such wonderful friendships.
Today, another comida in Mitla to celebrate a friend's birthday.
Tomorrow morning at seven we have been volunteered to help pescar corn in the field of a friend. Should be interesting!